Wednesday, December 19, 2007
DO PEOPLE TELL YOU WHEN TO JUMP AND HOW HIGH?
Hi From Ruby. Do People tell you when to jump and how high? What does this do to your self-esteem? As the attached photo indicates, please take a closer look at yourself in the "honesty mirror."Sometimes we are not able to tell people to stop because perhaps they have too much control over us. For example: A boss in a well-paid job, a best friend who rules our lives, children, significant others, and etc. We give our power away when permitting this intrusion, even though we rationalize that it is a good way to behave. To make waves after training people to be so bossy and controlling causes strife. So it appears easier to keep on allowing it. Or is it easier?
In the event that you have reached a point in your life, as I have, whereby rude, controlling and bossy people seem to have gone too far in their behaviors, take a good look at yourself in a mirror with your "honesty mirror" and see if you like what you are permitting to continue. Wishing you all a happy, healthier new year than you could ever hope to have.
Sincerely,
Dr. InaNorma Yanez, Ch.t, aka Ruby *o*
